WHAT IS YOUR POINT OF VIEW ?
Depends on your point of view.
when you view your life as a bad and complicated life, then you will have a complicated life, full with trouble that always make a problem to you ,you will feel that you have darkness within your heart and your life is full with people and situation that you can blame of.
when you view your life as a simple and harmonic life, then you will have an easy going life, day after day. you will have a life that full with laughter. you can see trouble as chalenge not as problem that will haunt yourself. you can see that this world is spinning around in a circle of fate, up and down, and you're not even bother with it.
when you view your life as a boring life, then you will have an orthodox life, full with monoton things to do, sucked to death by doing the same thing everyday. you will feel that this world is not spinning at all, all you think is to get out from this life but don't have any strength and guts to break the "same condition every day".
when you view your life as a beautifull life, then your life will full with beautifull things, every morning is a start to find "what beautifull things that i will get today ?", and every night is a time for smiling, because you have a wonderfull day before. you can see trouble as an interesting thing to solve, your life will full of people that supporting you, even when a person say "you suck !", you can see this line as a supporting word to improve yourself for not being suck person anymore. your brain will have a full ideas to make people around you feel happy. and they will be happy around you.
SO..choose your point of view, and eat your decission !